Our family of origin. Why did we pick the one we did? What did we want to learn from them? Maybe you desired to know what it was like to live in a household of artists, and find out what creativity was about. Or even just feel the water color brush in your hand as it moved across paper. Could be we chose one emotion so we could fully understand the dynamics as to why it influenced the entire family to live a certain way. Maybe it was fighting and bickering. Coldness. Or even laughter.
We chose our parents so that we could have the body shape, and other genetics of this combination to have a particular physical experience. We wanted a certain hair, skin, and eye color. We picked out the strength and beauty of the body we would ride in for our entire life. Maybe we chose to have a physical ailment or handicap to learn something else about the world around us. Maybe we wanted to know how people treat those who are different so that we can understand what it is like to be shunned or ignored.
Close your eyes and ask yourself what you came to learn this lifetime. Allow the soul part of you tell you what is in your blueprint.